Friday, 16 December 2016

Beauty, What really counts?

pretty - (of a person, especially a woman or child) attractive in a delicate way without being truly beautiful.

beautiful - pleasing the senses or mind aesthetically

Sometimes I look at my self and think wow I'm so fracking average from my skin to my weight. I look in the mirror and instantly start harshly judging myself especially the way I look. I judge everything from my tiny spots on my forehead to my flat nose and my tiny lips. Its been a long time since I looked at myself and thought damn gurl you fine AF.

However imagine a six year old me who couldn't get enough of myself. I would stare at myself thinking I was flipping gorgeous and that  I was model material I thought I was the prettiest little girl ever! Looking back I wish I still had that confidence but not on such a major level were I would stare at myself for 20 minutes a day!

I was the most self absorbed little girl I ever knew. I'm shaking my head just thinking about it.

Why did I tell you that story?
Well, if your sitting their feeling like rubbish and that your not pretty enough or gorgeous. STOP. Because we may not all be pretty but you right their through this very screen you are beautiful and if anyone wants to tell you different their talking absolute BS. Every human being has beauty in them no mater who we are okay. So not a lot of us look like Victoria Secret models but that doesn't matter because when you wear your face with proudness, your beauty will shine through you are gorgeous inside and out. Never think indifferently.

Social Media has opened a new door on what society excepts us to look like whether that's 'slim thick' or flawless eyebrows. Their have been many times I've scrolled through my Instagram feeling like shit.  But in reality I'm not. I'm Gods creation and I'm beautiful the way I am. I don't need social validation, self validation is what really counts. No don't call yourself ugly because you aint.

Yeah and one more thing to every person who has a problem with people who wear make up.
We don't wear make up for you we wear make up because it makes us happy, we know were beautiful without so leave us alone.

Before I go I'm going to leave with this quote
'Admire others beauty without questioning yours'

Graceeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee outttttttttttttttttttttttttta πŸ’–πŸ’‹πŸ’˜πŸ˜š

Friday, 9 December 2016

Friday Playlist

Friday is probably the  best day of the week. Its just the greatest day. It marks the end of the week and the start of the weekend! So its need to start of with a bang. You can just let loose and forget about all that stress. Music can seriously help with that so I created a list of songs that can help you let loose.

1. Ayo Chris Brown
2.Loyal Chris Brown
(These songs are essentals they MUST be played)
3.Trap Queen - Fetty Wap
4.679- Fetty Wap
5.Do It again - Pia Mia
6. One Dance Drake

So that's my list of songs that you actually have to dance your heart out too.

I hope you guys liked this impromptu post. I might do some more of theses btw.
Do you agree?
What's your ultimate dance playlist?

Let me know
I'm the comments beloww

Graceeeeeeeeeeeee ouuuuuuuuuuuuta ❤πŸ’–πŸ˜˜

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Am I kind?

To be honest with you I'm not really as kind as I could be. I mean I am a human being with feelings, some days I'm nice, others I'm not so nice. But honestly I'm not the sweetest human being I know and that's a fact.

I feel that kindness is one of the greatest qualities in a person. When your reply to hate and backlash with a smile you are better than the abuse your getting. But kindness can be difficult. I'm not going to sit here and type away on how  you  have to always compliment everyone that's throws hateful comments at you because its not that easy.

Here's the real question. Is being kind behind an evil motive still kindness?

If I'm kind to someone because someone told me too am I still kind? Some of us might have been brought to be kind and polite to people we do it because were told too not because we want too. A little food for thought eh.

But I can say that I truly admire a kind person. Someone who doesn't need to say anything back. Someone who reply's to hate with love. Someone who turns the other cheek when they get slapped. They're not kind out of fear but through the purity of their heart.

Sometimes I forgot about kindness. My life would be a whole lot better if I actually practised it daily. A kind person isn't weak but it strong at least that's what I believe.

In a lot of my posts I'm always talking about that someone, why can't I be that someone I'm looking for? Why can't I be that kind person I'm looking for? Theirs nothing stopping me and theirs nothing stopping you from be who your truly want to be.

Graceeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee ooutaaaaaπŸ’˜πŸ’–πŸ’—

Monday, 5 December 2016

Friends or Fakers

Hello people of the world

I'm breaking the rules new Friday post is now!

I have no intro in me so I'm just gonna jump right into this blogpost. Is that cool? cool.

Snakes their everywhere nower days and its like you cant escape them. Sometimes the most unlikely people become snakes and its hard. Secondary school has not only challenged me educationally but socially. Literally everyone is fake as fudge pies and it seriously scares me.

I feel like by the time I leave secondary school I would have left maybe only finding one true friend who will be their for me through everything. She listen she'll do the best she can for me she'll be real with me and I'd  do the same for her.

I don't know when I'll find this friend or if I've found this person already and I haven't bothered being their friend.(sigh)

I don't know if this blogpost makes any sense what-so-ever but I guess what I'm trying to say is I'm sick with having people to hang out with.I want deeper friendships but it feels like I'm missed the the true friend train a loooooong time ago.

However finding the perfect friend can also be like finding the perfect guy you know.. It doesn't exist at all. You only get the right guy they way you get the right friend. But maybe if I wait a while then I will find the right friend. I mean who knows when the right person walks through that door?

I don't know this post is just really rambly and literally doesn't make sense, but what are your thoughts on well friends and fakers? and has anyone been fake to you face? If so, how?

This post has been short and deep. May not have been sweet buttttt
Graceeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee outtttttttttttttttttttta πŸ’‹πŸ’“πŸ’Ÿ